The worst breakup was the one that didn’t happen

It was a Sunday afternoon, and I was having a Bumble BFF date with three girls at a wine bar in East Village (if you don’t know what Bumble BFF is, get with the times). One of the girls posed a question to the group: “What was the worst breakup you ever had?” We went around the group, and everyone had their horror stories. Then, my turn came, and I said awkwardly, that the worst breakups I’d had were probably worse for the other person, because I was a terrible breaker upper and broke up with people by text most…

On “finding your passion”

The expression ‘finding your passion’ is quickly becoming a cliche for Gen Y.  We’re told this so much on the Internet on sites like TED, Mark Manson, Thought Catalog and Elite Daily, as well as as on various other sites and blogs, not to mention in real life. You wonder at how these lucky people found their passions, and why you’ve been so unlucky to be one of the ones that doesn’t have a passion. Well, you’re not the only one. When I was younger, I struggled a lot because I felt like everyone knew what they wanted to do…